African Baskets -The Zulu Weavers

September 13th, 2009 | Posted in Art And Entertainment   Comments Off
Beverly Sugarman asked:

In the modern world, African baskets are a hot commodity with collectors and designers. The term itself is misleading to say the least. “African” denotes an entire continent and thousands of different peoples and nationalities. To say that a basket is an authentic “African” product is like saying that a French basket is authentic “European.” The baskets of Africa are as varied and diverse as its people.

The people of the Zulu tribe who are located in South Africa have long utilized baskets for gathering as well as use in a number of religious ceremonies. The materials that are most commonly used for the basket itself are the Ilala Palm and Ncebe, which is the bark from the wild banana tree. The two are interwoven to make the basket more colorful, as the palm itself is naturally a plain cream color.

Certain berries, plants, roots, and other ingredients are used to create dyes for use in the Zulu basket. Brown and black are made from boiling tree roots for several days, while purple and blue are created by boiling Umdoni berries. Coral comes from the aloe plant, while orange comes from a small root of a plant being boiled. Maroon and burgundy is extracted from the bark of the Marula tree while pink and lilac are made from the leaves of a small bush. Yellow is extracted from a combination of wood ash and water while grey is made from plants that are soaked in mud for at least a week. Khaki green comes from even more unusual source-cow dung that is boiled with palm leaves.

Zulu basket makers also weave particular designs in the fibers of these containers that denote specific things. For example, a triangle pattern in a Zulu basket means “masculine” while a double triangle means “married man.” “Feminine” is symbolized by a diamond and a double diamond means “married woman.” A good luck and prosperity basket will have a design of squares or dots on it. Baskets are also woven especially for a bride on her wedding day. She will give this basket to her new husband to drink beer out of. A depiction of the marriage will be woven into the fibers to serve as a record of the event for future generations. Other historical designs that are popular on Zulu baskets include a series of diamonds which stands for “the shields of Shaka” and a zig-zag pattern that denotes “the assegais of Shaka.”

There are several different styles of Zulu baskets. As mentioned before, there is a beer basket that is specially designed to be watertight. There are also open baskets that are used for gathering food.

While many of these baskets are still used for particular occasions and religious ceremonies, the Zulu basket weavers have found a prosperous outlet for their talent in the sale of their products. European and American consumers are willing to pay extravagant prices for these authentic “African” baskets. In many cases, this income may be the only money that the family has, so the basket weavers are more than happy to peddle their wares while maintaining the same quality that the Zulu basket weavers have carried on through the generations.

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Why Poland Brides Make Good Wives

September 9th, 2009 | Posted in Dating   Comments Off
Curt Webber asked:

International dating is rapidly growing in popularity. With online dating services, geographical boundaries have been lifted and now it’s just as easy to find yourself with a Latin, Russian, or Poland bride as it is to find a girl across town.

This article is not intended to say that women from other countries don’t make good wives, but to point out some reasons that Poland brides do. There are many things that affect a country’s men and women, including history, culture, and the political environment. Traditionally, women in Poland have been cherished for her role as wife, mother, and homemaker, even though many times she also works outside the home.

Polish society places a high priority on raising children and the women are the ones responsible for their upbringing. Many are stay at home moms, although large numbers of Poland women do work outside the home in a professional capacity.

Poland brides grow up in a society where even if a woman has a career, she’s still expected to give 100% to taking care of her husband, the home, and the children. They work hard at their job, and they work equally as hard to provide a clean atmosphere at home and hot meals for their husbands.

They’ve been raised to be economical, so they’re not wasteful, and if they can find a way to fix something or repurpose its use, they do. Many Polish women are actually quite handy around the house and able to do small repairs on their own.

Another reason Poland brides make good wives is because the commitment of marriage is taken very seriously, and once married, Polish women hardly ever divorce. 90% of the country is Catholic and their belief system forbids divorce.

Even in circumstances so dire that divorce is the only option, women in Poland rarely ever remarry. If you break their trust, they’re highly unlikely to trust someone else. Poland brides are raised to be faithful only to one man, so they seldom remarry.

You’ll find Poland brides to be highly educated in many cases. In Poland, young women often attain higher levels of education than many of their male counterparts. There is often a higher percentage of females than males in occupations such as engineering, architecture, and teaching at the university level.

Polish wives seem to have an inborn ability to balance and maintain a demanding career without sacrificing their focus on the home and their family. Generally speaking, Poland brides are not as ‘hung up’ on gender roles as many Western women tend to be, so they have no issues with doing whatever it takes to make their husbands happy and their marriages work.

You may discover that life with a Poland bride makes you a better person as well. They are generous, loving, and giving women, and often that rubs off on the people around them. They’re raised in a society that teaches them to give back to their community and to think unselfishly of others. This admirable trait makes Poland brides warm, loving, and generous women.

If you’re considering a bride from another area of the world besides your own, don’t overlook the possibility of a Poland bride. These women make wonderful wives and once committed to marriage, will do everything in their power to make sure you have a clean home, good food, and a happy relationship.

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Tips to choose the right Jewelry for an African-American Bride

September 2nd, 2009 | Posted in Jewelry   Comments Off
Anirban Bhattacharya asked:

The wedding day is the most important and exciting day in a girl’s life. Hence, it is important for her to look beautiful and charming with everything just perfect. Every girl is thrilled to get the right wedding gown and jewelry to compliment her looks on her big day. Usually, brides tend to get wrong jewelry which unfortunately outshines them on many an occasions. So, if you want to pick up the right wedding jewelry the following tips will surely help you:

 

The Wedding Ring:

It is the most important piece of jewelry on the wedding day. If you are going for a conventional wedding, a solitaire diamond ring looks just perfect for your day. Brides who prefer traditional wedding can choose more classy African jewelry rings.

 

Matching with the Wedding Gown:

After you pick your wedding ring, choose other pieces of jewelry that go well with your wedding gown. Get a well designed necklace, other rings (if you prefer), bridal bracelets and earrings. Supporters of classic European wedding style may choose jewelry pieces studded with pearls. However, brides looking for celebrating their wedding according to their African heritage can choose antique jewelry with colored gemstones. It is because colors are an integral part of African culture. Choosing attractive colors such as red, gold and green can give a traditional feel to the event.

 

Choose Jewelry matching to your skin tone and hair color:

Try to maintain a neutral balance when it comes to jewelry. Choose a simple design and combination that compliments your skin tone and hair color. For example, if you choose bright colors such as yellow shoes with red hair, you are going to ruin your day. So, be conscious about choosing jewelry.

 

Choose Jewelry on the Time of Day:

The wedding jewelry also depends a lot on the time of day you have decided to get married at. Like, brides getting married at the day time need not to wear flashy jewelry pieces. At night weddings, brides can get flashy jewelry pieces to add more grace into their entire wedding look.

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What Is The Traditional Gift For A Chinese Wedding?

August 27th, 2009 | Posted in Women's Issues   Comments Off
Chrystal Holman asked:

When considering what is the traditional gift for a Chinese wedding there really are three different answers.

There is a formal Chinese giving of wedding gifts from the groom’s family to the bride’s family, which is referred to as the traditional Grand Gifts. There are also the Chinese gifts that the wedding guests present and give to the couple. Lastly, there are also the gifts, or wedding favors that the bride and groom give to their wedding guests.

The Grand Gifts are wedding gifts that the Chinese groom’s family give to the bride’s family after the terms of the marriage have been negotiated and a fortune teller has analyze the date and hour of the bride’s birth with the date and hour of the groom’s birth to determine if the bride’s date and hour of birth are compatible with those of the groom.

Traditional Grand Gifts include the following items: Li Shi Money; jewelries; dragon-phoenix cakes; dried seafood and mushroom and Fat Cai; poultries; fish; coconut; wine or liquor; a Tie Box with dried fruits; raw fruit; Bin Lang; and tea.

The traditional wedding gifts are given over a period of several days and the purpose in the Chinese tradition is for these gifts to be used for ancestral worship.

The traditional Chinese wedding gifts that wedding guests give to the couple are not near as elaborate as the Grand Gifts. These gifts to the Chinese bride and groom customarily consist of gifts of cash, stuffed in red packets or envelopes.

The last type of gift in a traditional Chinese wedding is the wedding favors that the bride and groom give to the wedding guests.

These gifts are usually small items such as engraved silver fortune cookies, sake cups filled with lavender, porcelain tea cups, jasmine flowering tea in silk pouches, bridal coffee scoops, personalized plantable magic beans, candy bags, glass oil lamps, potpourri wedding bells bags, bridal candy flower pots, candy mint tins, and many more beautiful items that Chinese wedding guests can treasure.

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High Bride Price: a Price Bachelors Must Pay in Nigeria

August 26th, 2009 | Posted in News And Society   Comments Off
Emeka Esogbue asked:

Marriage in Nigeria as in other parts of Africa begins with what is known as introduction, this is very much similar to what the Europeans call engagement but with the difference being that an introduction never takes place without the presence of the families of the bride and groom to be. And this arrangement usually involves a kind of ceremony.

Bride price which ordinarily ought to be a token paid by man to his In-laws as pre-traditional requirement for marriage in Africa now sends Bachelors begging and panicking. Bride price also known in some quarters as Bride wealth is a particular sum of money paid to the parents of the lady he intends to marry or to the Lady’s family.

Please take note that in a typical African society such as Nigeria, this is different from what is called dowry. As dowry may be in form of items such as male goat, tobacco, honey, tubers of yam, clothings, umbrella, walking stick, box of clothes and host of others given to the lady herself or her family.

The examples of all these are found in yorubaland, south-west of Nigeria. However, the payment of bride price and dowry in the contemporary Nigerian society has become scaring for a lot of guys desiring to marry. The reason is not far-fetched. Family heads now request for more than what is necessry. Most of these family heads unreasonably issue out list of articles expensively impossible to gather, some of which may be in form of cartons of beer, and other forms of alcohol.

certain old men would then live on these beer. alot of traditional marriages have therefore been canceled owing to these sad developments leaving ladies who have attained marriagable age roaming around and most times taking to prostitution.

These family haeds in some cases behave like the ladies are going for sale. Look at Iboland where alot more is charges are placed on grooms simply because such brides are educated up to university level. what we now see in iboland, South-East of Nigeria are old Ladies who are unmarried because guys are scared of marrying from that part of the country.

Because what we have just discussed here separately has to do with what we call traditional marriage and not the English kind of wedding which may still conditionally required by the family, and considered much more expensive in some cases more than the traditional marriage itself which is more necessary, we there call on the governemnt of Nigeria concerned with culture to come up with laws that will give uniformity on amounts required as bride price and dowry to be paid by men desiring to marry.

Some people have expressed fears in some quarters in Nigeria that a time may come when Ladies would go begging men for marriage. A situation of recent developments in which Brides now contribute financially to their own marriages is discouraging and unafrican in culture.

we therefore appeal to the Authorities concerned in Nigeria to fashion out a way of addressing this problem.

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